Spending Money We Don't Have

I’ve been a bit reticent in my posting lately because sometimes life just gets in the way! However, I recently ran across a story on NPR that I just had to chime in about though. Consumer Spending Up, Incomes Lag talks about the increase in spending that resulted from programs such as Cash for Clunkers while income growth continued to be just about flat.

As a proponent of good debt only, this story scares me a bit. If we’re not making more money, we shouldn’t be spending more money. The statistic offered about the falling savings rate was also a bit disconcerting, but did have some good news when compared to savings rates last year.

“The big jump in spending and much weaker gain in incomes translated into a big drop in the savings rate. Personal savings in August fell to 3 percent of after-tax incomes, down from 4 percent in July. That was still nearly double the savings rate of a year ago. Economists say the savings rate will keep trending higher as households try to repair investment savings shredded by the recession.”

We all want the economy to recover, especially so people can get back to work. But a recovery based on additional debt won’t be a long-term permanent recovery, it would just put us back on the precarious house of cards that our economy was built on before the recession occurred. So the Money Maiden’s advice is to keep putting that money into savings so that we can all benefit from a stable economic recovery.

How The Recession Can Help Us

Back when I first started this blog and before the recession had really taken hold, I posted a link to a very good article by Liz Pulliam Weston. She talked about the impact it would have if we all started to increase our savings and use our money more wisely. She predicted that the short-term impact would be a global economic recession since our economy was so dependent upon consumers. But she thought it would be good in the long-run because of the positive impacts to both individuals and the broader economy.

I remember at the time thinking that managing our money and living within our means was still the right thing to do, but that it might be hard to convince people to do this because of the pain of going through a recession. Well folks, the recession happened, whether or not we wanted it to. So if we have to go through this, it’s encouraging to me to hear that savings rates are going back up (although no where near the high of 14.6% we saw in 1975). More people are starting to live within their means now. So maybe we’ll get the long-term benefits the article listed even though this wasn’t an entirely voluntary decision.

When to Start Allowance

I received a question from a reader in a comment that seemed worthy of its own blog post.

What a great blog Darcy! My son is just getting an interest in money and saving. When did you start a weekly allowance w/ the kids and how much do the kids earn? We are trying to figure out when and how much to start our son out at, and what parameters to tie it to....there are only so many chores a 4 year old can do! :)

Obviously you have to do what works in your family, but here's what we do with our kids: We started the allowance when our kids turned 4 years old, and they get $1 per week for each year old they are. So my 8-year old gets $8 per week. We don't explicitly tie the allowance to chores, although they do have chores and we add more each year. So I guess it's more like a salary for them, they get it as long as there aren't serious deficits in getting their chores done.

I don't like to tie allowance directly to chores because I don't want to send the message that the kids will get paid for doing things that are a part of their job in the family (and no one pays me when I do the dinner dishes or the laundry!) But we have docked their allowance in the past if the kids didn't do their chores in a particular week.

Our kids are expected to keep their rooms picked up, including making the bed every day. They have to get their clothes into the hamper and their dinner dishes into the sink every evening. The 8-year old also has to sweep under the table after dinner and clean the toilets once per week.

I think 4 years old is a great time to start allowance for the exact reason listed above, they start to get interested. In my humble opinion, one of the best things we can teach our kids about money is that you have to earn and save money before you can buy the things that you want.

Good luck implementing the allowance, let me know how it goes!

"Going American"

My family recently hosted a wonderful young man from France through a foreign exchange program. Although we don't speak any French so we occasionally had to try more than once to understand each other, we made it work; and the cultural exchange of information along with a new friendship were well worth the effort.

One day he and my husband were discussing debt and he told my husband that in France the only debt people take on is for big items like cars and houses. (Sounds awfully familiar.) He said that it would never cross his mind to take out a loan for something small like a TV. He actually said that if someone ever talks about taking out a loan for a small item they call it "Going American." I don't know that it's such a great thing to have our country associated with frivolous debt. I can only hope that over time if more and more people are smart about debt that phrase will lose it's meaning and go out of vogue.

Where We Do Need To Spend Money

I realize that I'm a bit behind the times, but I recently watched An Inconvenient Truth and was pleasantly surprised by the movie. Although the information about global warming was depressing; Al Gore did a good job of leaving you with hope that if we make some changes we can reverse the effects of global warming. I live in Colorado and every time we go into the mountains we see the effects of global warming first hand. The pine trees are all turning brown and dying because our winters no longer get cold enough to kill off the larvae. This is a problem that all of North America is experiencing according to a recent article by the BBC.

As much as I preach money management, there are things that we must spend money on. I firmly believe that spending money on alternative energy, more fuel-efficient cars, recycling, and other items that will help stop and perhaps reverse global warming is very necessary. We don't all have the money to make the changes immediately, but if we start making small changes now, eventually they'll all add up. This is just another reason why it's important to manage our money; so that we have money to spend on the important things.

Responsible Spending Habits Slow Economic Recovery

Sarah Lockyer recently penned an article in Nations Restaurant News about decreased spending by consumers due to fears of unemployment. The article is based on research by Technomic Inc. which indicates that an economic turnaround will take longer because consumer spending is slower. From the article:

"The current broad unemployment rate, which includes not only those who have lost their jobs, but also workers who are underemployed or discouraged, has reached 15.8 percent and is rising, according to a July Technomic report from the firm’s consulting economist, Arjun Chakravarti. The prolonged climb of unemployment in the United States has not only affected the spending habits of those without jobs, but also has changed the spending habits of those who remain employed “by spreading psychological uncertainty across all workers in the economy,” Chakravarti said".

Although it would be nice if the economy would recover quicker, it will come back stronger and more stable if everyone increases their savings rate. I know that economists would be happy with a quick turnaround, but I for one am pleased to hear that people are developing more responsible spending habits.

Debt Load

There was an interesting article in this week's edition of Time Magazine about what our economic recovery will look like. One of the sections in particular caught my attention.


[Frugality] is an extremely fashionable topic at the moment. Some cultural observers even think Americans are due for a prolonged shift away from the consumption obsession of the post-World War II era. That strikes me as an iffy bet, but it is clear that the debt-fueled consumer spending binge of the past couple of decades is over. The household debt-to-income percentage more than doubled, from 65%in 1982 to 135% in 2007. That turned out to be way too much for us to handle, and now the leveraging process has gone into reverse. The latest household debt-load reading from the Federal Reserve is 128%, and while nobody knows exactly where the percentage will end up, a lot lower seems like a safe prediction. Which means that for years to come, American households will be spending less than they take in.

Huh, over 100% debt-to-income was too much to handle, does this seriously surprise anyone? I’m definitely not the first person to ever say “live within your means.” How do you prepare for retirement if you’re not only not saving, but spending more money than you’re making? I hope that the cultural observers are right in that we all move away from all that consumption and start trying to build on our wealth by saving some of the money that we earn, and that we’re all in it for the long-term.

Money Isn't The Only Thing You Have To Budget

It's imperative to budget your money if you want to properly manage it, and it's equally important to budget your time if you want to have enough. Most of us have very busy schedules. If you work full-time, have a house to maintain, kids to raise and spend time with, a significant other who you'd like to be more than just a roommate, and exercise to remain healthy to do all of that; it can be hard to fit everything in.

My husband and I got a rare date night tonight, and while we were walking together, we talked about things we'd like to do with our time (like post on this blog on a more regular basis), and how hard it is to find the time for everything. But then we starting talking about how if we actually sat down and looked at how we were spending our time every day, we might be surprised at how we could fit in a few more of the important things. I started thinking about how our time is much like our money, most of us don't have enough for everything we need or want, and we have to decide when and how we're going to use it, and prioritize and make sacrifices when necessary. Wouldn't it be great if we all won the lottery and had clocks that could stop time? Since that's not reality, I guess the Money Maiden will have to be as diligent with her time as she is with her money.

Another Benefit of Delayed Gratification

Practicing delayed gratification is one of the most important tools to assist you with successful money management. By saving up in advance so that you have the money for the things you need before you purchase them, you keep yourself out of bad (unnecessary and providing no long-term gain) debt. The other thing that delayed gratification does for you is to allow you time to cool off. I’ve found that there are times that I’ve decided I really want something, but by the time I’ve saved up for it I realize that I’ve gotten along this far without it and don’t really need it.

So now not only did I avoid going into debt, but I’ve also managed to increase my savings rate. Two for the price of one, always good in money management!

Money Mistakes from Women's Health Magazine

The June issue of Women's Health magazine offered a good article about 4 mistakes you shouldn't make with your money. Here is author Katie Arnold's list of mistakes to avoid:
1. Being financially apathetic. I've posted about this one before here. You have to know how much money you have and where it's going in order to "manage" it.
2. Waiting to save. We've all seen the charts. If you start saving when you first start working, you'll build up a much bigger nest egg than if you wait 10 years.
3. Paying off debts in the wrong order. Get rid of the credit cards debt first, then you can worry about the bigger items that I like to term "good debt."
4. Failing to negotiate. This is one that isn't a strength of mine. It's a hassle and I'm a busy woman; but it's good to keep in mind that I might be leaving money on the table.

I looked on the website but couldn't find this article there, so if you have the opportunity take a look at the magazine. It's a good article with some good, common-sense recommendations.

More Discussions About Money With the Kids

My eight-year old daughter decided she wanted a new MP3 player that was more sophisticated than the Disney version she'd gotten a few years ago that basically just has a play button. At first she had her mind set on an Ipod touch. We told her she had almost enough money and would just need to save for a little while longer.

We talk to our kids about how much money they have in their savings accounts, so her response to save for a few more weeks was, "I don't need to, I'll just take the money out of my savings account." When I explained to her that she couldn't use her savings account that way, she was pretty disgruntled. It was her money and she wanted it.

It's a bit abstract to explain to a child who's still 10 years away from it, that she can't use her money now because she'll need it for college. But we did have the discussion and she eventually resigned herself to the fact that she'd have to wait until she had saved up a bit more allowance. Although after further digging, we realized that a much less expensive MP3 player would meet her needs and she was able to purchase the player right away. So although the savings account discussion turned out to be unneccesary, I'm still glad we had it. I'm sure it will be first of many times and I imagine it'll become harder to convince her to leave that money alone as she gets older!

Another Learning Opportunity While Shopping

This weekend my kids and I visited our local craft super store to get the final item for my mother's day presents. My son was enamored with EVERYTHING in the store. He kept asking if we could buy everything that he saw. I told him that we couldn't get those things because they weren't on our shopping list. He asked why we couldn't purchase something if it wasn't on the list. So I explained to him that if you buy things that aren't on your list, you'll wind up spending money that you can't afford to spend.

I have found that shopping with my children presents the most wonderful opportunities for learning about how to manage money. Of course it's more of a hassle, but definitely worth it!

Are We Learning a Lasting Lesson From the Economy?

I was reading a blog that I enjoy the other day called Bing's Blog. He has a post about things that we've learned during this economic downturn that we should, but probably won't remember when the economy turns around. Item #5 on his list worried me a bit.

It seems that everyone is more aware of their spending habits these days, which as the Money Maiden, I think is fabulous. But he predicts that we'll all forget that unchecked consumerism and no savings were problematic, and that we'll all start doing it again. I imagine that he's not far off the mark. I look at my grandparents who grew up during the Great Depression and their lifelong frugality. Don't get my wrong, my parents are very responsible with their money (they taught me after all), but they aren't as stingy as my grandparents were. So if I were a betting woman, (I'm not, that's not responsible money management!) I'd take the bet that once the economy recovers, some of the people who had become more responsible out of necessity will go back to their old ways. But I hope that not everyone does. I hope that we as society start focusing on saving money, and producing things for others to buy, instead of trying to build our wealth from a house of cards like we did in the past.

How Hipsters Manage Their Money

Do you want to get a handle on your money, but you think an Excel spreadsheet is far too antiquated? Check out the NPR All Tech Considered blog where you can find a number of websites to help you manage your money, many that have a social networking aspect to them.

And if you need help with the psychology of your spending and not just tracking your spending, here's a helpful website: Your Money or Your Life

Retirement Savings Accounts

If you have a retirement savings account right now such as a 401(k) or IRA, you probably cringe every time you see a new statement. You look at the earnings line and it's always a significant negative number. You look at the balance and it's less that it was a year ago.

But don't panic, especially if you have a while to go until retirement. Just hold steady and know that right now you're "buying low." The markets traditionally rebound very well after significant losses like these, so you'll likely catch up to where you were fairly quickly once the recession ends. This is another reason why it's important to start investing as early as you can, so you're better able to weather the ups and downs of the market.

The chart below is a simple example of what happens when two people both invest $100 per month when they both have 30 years to go until retirement. John starts investing immediately while Steve waits 10 years. Who would you rather be: John or Steve?

Spending Less Money

Barbara Warmsley, also known as the "Green Granny" is posting videos on youtube with ideas about how you can spend less money. I saw an interview with her where she discussed the fact that she grew up during WWII and learned how to be frugal. My grandparents who grew up during the Great Depression also learned to be less wasteful and to make better use of their items than my generation.

These videos have some good ideas that just might help you to stay within your budget. They might also trigger some of your own ideas about ways to save money.

Teaching Kids About Money

My children receive an allowance (which is a part of my budget) in an effort to teach them about money management. My daughter hoards her money and whenever she wants something, she's always got the money to be able to purchase it right then. My son, on the other hand, spends his money every time he's saved up enough for his current action figure obsession. So he always has to save before he can make a purchase.

Kids have different personalities, even kids that share the same gene pool and grow up in the same house. They view money differently so the lessons that have to emphasized vary, but there are still lessons for each child. Both of my kids are learning how to earn money. They're both also learning about value, when it's alright to spend, and when you should save. My son is (hopefully) learning about delayed gratification and that he can wait to get something he wants; a lesson my daughter seems to understand inherently.

What lessons are your children learning about money? How do you teach them? Do you believe in allowance? Let me know your thoughts in the comments.

Expectations

Contentment with your financial situation (as well as life in general) can come from managing your expectations. Instead of thinking of everything you can’t afford or how little you have; try thinking of how much you really do have. Imagine what life was like for people a few centuries ago, or look at some of the poorer countries today. The average American has more than royalty did a few centuries ago.

Even if you can’t afford a fancy TV or video game set, chances are you’ve got a computer and a TV. You have indoor plumbing and heat. Focusing on what we do have and what our money does buy for us helps us to understand that we don’t need to strain our budget to the breaking point to find happiness.

The Stress and Money Cycle

Are you feeling stressed right now? Many people are. There’s a laundry list of concerns right now that contribute to feelings of stress.
• The economy
• The unemployment rate
• Housing foreclosures
• Added responsibilities at work
• Fear of losing your job
• Difficulty finding a new job

All of these concerns and many more are making this a particularly trying time for lots of folks. One common response to these feelings is to do something nice for ourselves. This is a wonderful reaction; unless it spirals into a vicious cycle of spending unbudgeted money that leads to more debt which leads to more stress.

There is a good way to break or avoid that cycle altogether: include money in your budget to treat yourself. It might mean trimming elsewhere, but it can help you to manage your anxiety without adding additional burdens or concerns.

During these difficult times it’s important to discover and pursue what feeds your soul. For some people it’s a trip to the movies, for others it’s a relaxing massage, or some really lucky people feel renewed by taking a quiet walk outdoors (that one doesn’t even require budget maneuvers!) Just remember, it is so much more rejuvenating when you spend budgeted money on yourself guilt-free.

Squirrel Away Money When You Have the Chance

In a recent issue of Time magazine, there was an interesting article about your job being your most important asset. It had some different ideas and definitely gave me some food for thought. It also underscores that education, what I call good debt, is worth pursuing because it increases your future earning potential.

But what about all of the people who have lost their jobs, or are in danger of losing them soon? Their “asset” is no longer paying out. The best protection if this has happened, or might happen to you, is to have money in savings. I know a few people who work at jobs where they are assigned to particular long-term projects. Some of these folks know that there aren’t any new projects in the queue and that their employment will be done when their current project is done. One person is not really worried because he’s saved money for just such an occasion and knows he’ll be all right for about 1 year. Some of the other people I know are sweating it a bit more.

I realize that there are all kinds of expenses that make it difficult to save. However, it is easier to find money to set aside when you have a job than when you’re on employment. Make a category for savings in your budget and put as much as can in there each month. Check with your work to see if you can have two accounts for your direct deposit. If you can (and most workplaces who have direct deposit can), just put some money directly into your savings account. It can be easier if you never actually have the money to spend on other things. Do what you need to do so you’ll be a little bit safer if you lose your job.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words

When it comes to teaching kids anything, actions always speak louder than words. My dad used to tell my brother and me to “do as I say, not as I do.” You can probably picture the eye-rolls and disgruntled looks that we shared with each other. The way we as parents live our lives says a great deal more to our kids about our values than anything we actually say to them.

The same holds true with money. Talking about money has always been a bit taboo in our society. It’s just one of those things that you don’t discuss in polite company. But if we expect our children not to make the same mistakes that we’ve made and to be responsible with their money some day; we’ve got to show them through our actions how to do that.

We let our kids hear our discussions about how and when we choose to spend our money. We took a Disneyland vacation last summer, and we talked all winter and spring before then about how we were saving up money for the trip. We made the kids save up their allowance to buy their Disney souvenirs. We helped them to make choices about which souvenirs they wanted to spend their money on, since they could only spend as much as they’d brought with them.

My kids also watch us save up money when we want to buy something for ourselves. We make sure to talk about how excited we are that we’ll be able to buy that thing we want after we’ve saved enough money. We make them save up their allowance when they want to buy a new toy or movie.

I’m hopeful that getting to see and hear how we choose to spend our money will lead to them making responsible financial choices in the future. I know that there are no guarantees, but I can say to my daughter and son, “do as I do.”

Priorities, Choices, and Willpower

Money management can be boiled down to three words: priorities, choices, and willpower. How you choose to spend your money determines how well you manage it. Your choices are driven by your priorities, and willpower is required to stick with those choices sometimes.

My husband and I were trying to figure out how we could contribute more money to charity when we weren't getting raises this year and none of our expenses were decreasing. We decided that giving more money was a priority. So we chose to give up some of our weekly allowance or fun money to put more in the charity pot. I'm currently trying to save my allowance for eye surgery since I don't do well with glasses or contacts, so this means that it's going to take longer to save up. I am also a book junkie and frequently want to buy new books.

I'm confident that this new choice is the right one, so I'm willing to extend my eye surgery, and refrain from purchasing every book that I want to read. (I guess I'll be spending more time than usual at my local library!) By setting our priorities, making different choices and exerting willpower, we're able to keep our budget balanced and give more money to charity.

These are the same principles that can nearly always be applied to any budget in order to succesfully manage your money.

How Much Lower Can the Market Go?

We all know (or we will soon find out!) what a math geek I am. I obtained the source data for the Dow Jones Industrial Average for the entire 20th century for data analysis. When I charted this data, it sort of scared me, because I don't know when we'll hit bottom.

The spike that has been occurring just doesn't seem to fit the pattern, and it worries me that in order to truly reset, we've still got to go down further.

I ran a regression analysis with the data from 1900 through 1984 (right before the spike really took off) and found that if the trend had continued on that path, we'd be at 1,176 today, but we're actually at 6,574, a number that is very low according to all reports.

Maybe the current market is too different from the pre-1990's market to make the comparison and we don't have anything to worry about; or maybe we still have some correction to do before we really reset. I'm not an economist, so I don't know which way this will go, it's just something that I'm wondering about and will keep watching.

What if I Don't Have Enough Money?

A question I frequently hear is, “what if I don’t make enough money to cover my expenses? How do I save, how do I avoid debt?”

Most people probably have more money than they actually realize. The first step would be to look at how much money you’re spending on non-essential items. When you start tracking your money and where and how you’re spending it, it can sometimes be surprising how much you actually spend that you weren’t even aware of.

The next thing to look at is what you have defined as essentials. Are some of the things that you spend money on really necessary? Right after I got out of college and wasn’t making much money, I decided that I wouldn’t have cable television. Although I definitely wanted it, I knew it wasn’t necessary and decided that it wouldn’t fit into my budget. What types of services or items are you purchasing that aren’t totally necessary?

It’s also good to look at how much you’re spending on your essential items on a regular basis. Make sure not to get complacent with your service charges, shop around and find the best deal. Can you save money by bundling your insurance, or switching to a new company? One note on this, make sure you don’t switch to save money if the new service doesn’t meet your needs; notice that I wrote find the best deal, not just the best price.

Practice delayed gratification. When you find something that you want, it can be really hard to wait to purchase it. But it’s much better in the long run to save up and wait until you can afford an item than to get into debt. See this clip from SNL called “Don’t Buy Stuff You Cannot Afford.” It sums this point up beautifully and comically.

If you are one of the few who truly cannot pay for your basic needs you’ll need to look into other options. Find out if you’re eligible for any aid programs, get a roommate to help with rent or the mortgage, try to find a job that pays more even if it isn’t your first choice of work. But most of us can use the tips in the previous paragraphs to find more money than we ever realized we had.

Can You Help the Economy to Recover?

This is a great post about the part that consumers, you and I, played in the current economic recession.

The encouraging thing is that maybe you and I can help to eventually turn the tide by being responsible with our money. Thus this blog.

Now May Be The Time To Invest

This article is a bit older, but it is a good post about why now may be the right time to invest.

How to Use a Budget - Post #3

Now that we've walked through the steps of creating a budget (see here and here); we'll talk about how to use your new tool.

The purpose of creating a budget is to understand how much money you have available to actually spend so that you only spend that amount. Now you know how much money you can spend on eating out or buying clothes this month without getting into trouble. Although the real trick can sometimes be actually sticking to your budget. Let me point out that a budget that you don't stick to is a waste of your time. So how do you make sure that you're spending what you decided you should?

Although this is a little old fashioned, if you're having difficulty sticking to your budget here's a really helpful trick: Keep your money in envelopes for each category and only spend what you have in the envelope. Once your envelope for clothes is empty, you don't buy any more clothes until you earn more money to put in that envelope.

I'm obviously someone who likes technology, and I grew up on a debit card. But I found that it was difficult to keep our spending under control when my husband and I were both on the debit card for all of our purchases. So we moved to a cash only basis for our "free" money. This has been very beneficial for 2 reasons: We only spend the money we have on hand so we're sticking to our budget; and we frequently spend less than our allowance so we're able to save up for bigger "fun" items. Saving our unspent allowance is how we got the TV we have now.

A budget can help you to stop spending too much money, and it can even help you to stop spending money altogether on some items. If you find that your Starbucks habit just doesn't allow you to balance your budget, you could cut it out completely and stop spending money there.

Used correctly, a budget can be the tool that helps you to get your spending under control and truly manage your money.

How to Create a Budget - Post #2

This is the second in a series about how to create a budget. These steps take you through the mechanics of actually creating and working with a budget. Read here for the first three steps.

Step 4: Create categories for all of your money. These categories will be driven primarily by how you spend your money, and so you'll need to modify it for yourself; but here's a list to get you started.

Savings (yes, it's first on the list because you should make it priority for those inevitable lean times)
House - mortgage/rent, insurance, repairs
Auto - payment, insurance, fuel, maintenance
Food - dining, groceries, lunch money
Entertainment
Credit Card
Cash allowance (I know, cash is a little old fashioned, but it's easier to stick with the right amount on your "free" spending than using a debit card)
Charity donations
Daycare
Medical
Life insurance
Telephone - land line and/or cellular, ISP
Utilities - water, gas/electricity, sewage
Garbage Removal
Gifts
Vacation
License Plates
Television
Bank Fees
Business Expenses
Clothing
School Supplies & Fees

Step 5: Based on your tracking of how much money you spend, assign a certain amount for each category per month (or whatever time frame you're using.)

Step 6: Balance your budget. This is a vital step, your income has to be at least as much as your expenses. If you find your expenses outstripping your income, you will need to make some tough decisions about where you can cut back. Can you spend a bit more on groceries which will save money on food since it costs less than eating out? Can you check around and see if you can get a better deal on your insurance? Do you qualify for any assistance programs for your utilities or daycare? However you get to the bottom line, your income has to cover your expenses.

The next post on budgeting will talk about how to use this new tool to actually make a difference. Because that's just what a budget is, a tool. And no matter how fancy or thoughtful your tool is, it only works if you use it correctly.

SNL's Answer to Debt

Because it's been harder than I realized to find the energy and motivation to post as often as I should after working full time and taking care of a house and kids; I decided to post some comic relief.

This skit from Saturday Night Live sums it all up!



The second post on how to budget will arrive soon!